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Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Baby Boy or Girl M_______y, Sibling to Lincoln Daniel

Stephanie writes:
Ok, so we have one son and his name is Lincoln Daniel (last name is Irish and starts with an M and ends with a Y). My name is Stephanie Marie and hubby is Daniel Raymond. If this baby is a boy we have the name Nicholas James picked out. Nicholas is after my late uncle and I just love the name James and my husband happens to have an uncle on each side named James.

Girl names are what we cannot figure out. I do NOT like Nicole for a girl. My husband has a pretty big family and does not want to use any of their names for first names. This is fine with me for the most part because there are a lot of repeats already (ie. 2 Coleens, 3 Irenes, etc.). However, I LOVE the name Lauren, but he has a young first cousin named Lauren with the same last name. There aren't really any other family names that I like for a first name. My great-grandmother was named Valentina, but I would only want to use it as a middle name. Oh, I am due in Early March but will probably deliver sometime in February. Other names I like are:

Noelle (not sure about using it when baby is not born close to Christmas)
Laurel
Brenna (hubby doesn't like it)

Such a short list. I don't feel like Valentina pairs well with any of these. My family is Ukrainian and there are a few Ukrainian names that I like, but just sound silly with an Irish last name. I also like a few french names, like Cosette, Colette, Juliet, Gabrielle, but I don't even know anyone that's French and I don"t feel like our families will identify with those names.

So, what name pairs well with Lincoln and can stand up to an Irish last name and flows well with Valentina? Or maybe you can think of another middle name that sounds better.

I think Laurel Valentina is great. I think it flows well, and that Lincoln and Laurel is a cute sibling set---better even than Lincoln and Lauren, which seem like they might cross the matchy line.

(The comments section on the post Baby Naming Issue: Using the Name Natalie For a Baby Not Born at Christmas might be of some use on the Noelle issue, even though it was written about a different name.)

Though Cosette and Colette still sound French to the U.S. ear, I think Gabrielle is nearly as mainstreamed as names like Nicole and Michelle and Danielle (which sound a little French, but probably in the same way names like Patrick and Ryan and Kyle sound a little Irish), and that only the Juliette form of Juliet seems French. Depending on which French names you have in mind, that could be an excellent category to revisit. Or, some French names have an Anglicized version (like Juliet for Juliette): if, for example, you like Cecile, you could consider Celia. If you like Clarisse, you could consider Clarissa.

Do you like Eloise? It's French, without being alienatingly French. I love it with your surname, and with Valentina.

Or Josephine? Maybe too many shared sounds with Valentina. But if so, French names often make wonderful middle names because so many of them have the emphasis on the second syllable: Josephine Celeste, Josephine Colette, Josephine Noelle, etc. It might be a nice way to get a French name you love, without as much of the worry that it won't fit right with your family.

I wonder if your husband would like Bryn (or Brin) more than Brenna? Bryn Valentina M_____y; Lincoln and Bryn. I would prefer to avoid the initials B.M., though.

Lincoln is a surname name---but because it evokes Abraham Lincoln (and because it's been in the Top 1000 as a first name since at least 1880 when the public online Social Security records begin), I think it sounds good with early American names like Abigail, Molly, Ruth, Emily. Molly is perhaps not right with your surname, and Emily might be too common---but I like Lincoln and Abigail, Lincoln and Ruthie, Lincoln and Amelia, Lincoln and Lydia, Lincoln and Eliza, Lincoln and Margaret, Lincoln and Clara, Lincoln and Cora, Lincoln and Adeline, Lincoln and Alice.

13 comments:

Fran said...

I was thinking Laurel also when you mentioned Lauren!

Joanne said...

I love the name Laura, but I guess it's kind of funny with Valentina. Laura Valentina. I love the name Lisette, Lisette Valentina. Lisette and Lincoln.

Marjorie said...

Laurel Valentina is PERFECT!!!! I totally agree with Swistle.

Frazzled Mom said...

I don't think you need to look any further than Laurel Valentina, but I also like the suggestion of Eloise.

Anonymous said...

I love Laurel, and I love Eloise! Go for it!

Trudee said...

I also like Laurel, but Nicola (instead of Nicole) or Noella (instead of Noelle) might work too.

The Mrs. said...

Laurel Valentina in so classic and, yet, unique. Excellent taste!

StephLove said...

I'm jumping on the Laurel Valentina bandwagon here, but I'd also urge you to reconsider whatever Ukrainian names you were considering. I often like it when the first and last names are from different ethnicities. It makes the name sound very American and tells a story about your family.

Anonymous said...

definitely Laurel Valentina

Anonymous said...

Will this be your last child? If you decide to go for a third, will you feel like you have to stick to the L theme if you choose Lauren/l? Lincoln, Laurel and Nicholas?

As your baby will be born in February, what about Valentine instead of Valentina? Lauren Valentine M---y has a really nice ring to it.

Some ideas:

honoring your heritage:
Laris(s)a Valentine
Katerina Valentine, nn Katie, Katya, or Kat
Anya Valentine
Lena Valentine
Vera Lauren

or
Brigit Valentine/a
Kira Valentine

Anonymous said...

I like Laurel Valentina!

Reading your letter, I immediately thought of Elaine, which also led me to Alaina. Elaine is adorable with Lincoln and seems to be up your alley style-wise. I also think it would be cute with your surname, if your SN is what I am imagining in my head! Alaina is nice because it is a bit more fun and fresh, and Alaina Valentina is lovely!

Nicole Trager said...

I immediately thought Laurel too. How about Lorelei?
Also I wanted to mention that if this is not your last child make sure you really like 'L' names as you might be locking yourself into a theme.

Anonymous said...

how about Nicola?